amazing gifts

so the last entry i was bemoaning the idea of forced gift-giving. I was down on the whole thing based on how hyped up the ladies on a talk show were and just the ick factor of giving to impress or keeping up with the neighbors. It really got me down taking in that information. you know who was the loser? Me! yeah, that's right. i decided not to fall into the American commercial trap. i on purpose became the dour one. the bah humbug. i lost. because i rejected the idea of gift giving i rejected all the others who were giving. All of my friends around me, my husband, my family. I rejected them. What a learning. Here's how it happened. I went to the post office to pick up my mail and I had a package waiting for me from a name i didn't recognize. I was so confused. Super neat handwriting, unknown name, unknown address. I accepted the package and as I drove home racked my brain...who knows that i am here? where did this come from? The curiosity overcame me. I opened the brown cardboard box carefully taped at all seams. As I pulled back the flaps I saw white tissue paper and then the card. It hit me. It was from this great girl with whom I worked this summer. We only had a few days that we worked but I loved getting to know her. She left town to travel a bit and then I left to travel for a month or so and we didn't really get to say good bye. She had gone through her closet and found a skirt that she just didn't wear but thought of me. She thought I would like it and so she wrapped it up and sent it to me with a super note. Out of the blue i got the chance to reconnect. that is what this season is all about to me. It took the kindness of a friend out of the blue to reconnect me to what I love about life. Connection with others. I am so thankful for this lady! She shocked me out of my sour attitude. After reading the note and trying on the skirt(fit like it was made for me!) I just sat down with my jaw slacked and the tears welled. they spilled out and I was overcome with a sense of gratitude. i really have beautiful friends and a wonderful family and I want to embrace that not reject it. Sometimes you get just what you need when you least expect it.